User blog comment:Megaphantaze/The last days of Frostyflytrap/@comment-2233791-20140727173351

My ideas:

Always remember the Golden Rule : Treat others the way you want to be treated and respect them for who they are.
 *  Smile to everyone you meet. (Use Smileys :) )  It will urge the other person to smile back. A smile a day is the essential movement to niceness, and even if the person you met is your worst enemy, muster a little smile and say a friendly "Hi!" to her.
 *  Say Hola!  Greet everybody you know, not only with that smile, but also a 'hello'. If you have the time, try to introduce yourself to everybody you meet and don't know yet. Chances are that one of the hundreds you get to know will become your best friend!
 *  Start a conversation.  Talk about small stuff that you know the person would be interested in. If you don't know the other person well enough to know about their preferences, try to talk about things happening around you. (But don't get too personal :P )
 *  Try to compliment your new pal. But be careful, though, not to flatter them too much. Too much flattery can give the impression that you are sucking up to them, and especially if this new friend is a superior, they will think of you as a lapdog :P.
 * Be positive. Don't be negative or critical. Keep looking for the positive in any given situation. Cheer them up. There are two sides to things: the positive side and the negative side. Mention the positive side of the thing first before mentioning the negative side in a nice way.
 *  Be courteous.  Always say "please," "thank you" and "you're welcome." You can also address people by sir or ma'am, depending on the occasion. Be patient, observant, and considerate. Treat people with respect. Even if you don't particularly like someone at first, they could end up being a really interesting and kind person. Don't forget "Excuse me" instead of "MOVE!". Remember: People aren't dogs or the ground you spit on, they are living beings like you. If you are respectful to that person, that person will have to act the same way. Why would they be mean to you when you're being a good person?
 * Be a good listener. Listen when other people are talking to you. It isn't nice to just ignore other people's opinions and stories. If you find that someone is becoming rude or pushy, acknowledge their opinion, issue a compliment and excuse yourself politely.
 * Offer to help. If you see someone struggling or doing anything, offer to help. You can also be nice to the community and the world by volunteering.
 * Don't talk about other people and don't be a backstabber. Try to be nice to everyone and don't pick favorites. Also, don't be two-faced or talk about people who trust you. Don't ever gossip about other people you don't like. Just think about all the positive things about them and the negative opinions about them will slowly fade, leaving you no excuses to gossip.
 * Make sure to be as nice as they are to you. If your friends give you a present say something honestly positive about it even if you don't like it and make sure you don't tell anyone that you don't like it. It will end in a fall out, and make sure that if you haven't got them a present don't tell them in a horrible voice I wouldn't mention it at all!
 * Don't hurt them. If you and your brother are fighting don't beat him up to the point where he is crying. Be nice to him and let him have his way.
 * Bad language, gossiping, whining, selfishness and greediness don't mix with being nice. Remember using vulgar language won't make a very good impression.
 *  Don't laugh at other peoples' mistakes and don't point out their faults too harshly.  It's okay to joke, of course, but use your common sense; think about what you're about to say, and consider the fact that just because you may not be offended by a certain comment, others could be.
 * Be optimistic about everything, even when you don't particularly feel like it. Always look on the bright side!