User blog comment:AustinCarter4Ever/I'm Going to Leave the Wiki 4ever.../@comment-3060206-20130525064045

You cannot take a leave in chat too personally. The circumstances are always different. Some people have to leave abruptly because the few of us have poor connection, or their browsers lag severely. Others feel they're not contributing anything useful to the conversation and leave.

Just think: did this only happen to you a few times? Chat is very randomized, because it shows conversation in real time. This wiki does not revolve around you. Chat does not revolve around you either. To make you feel better, this wiki does not revolve around a single user. We all have our own reasons for doing the things we do, most, I would say, don't even concern our love or hate for you.

You'd be silly to think, with all the comments and messages users here have left, that you're hated and no one likes you? Has anyone ever said it straight up to you?

Now you're also not the only one who has their emotional ups and downs. Funny how it sometimes takes other people in your former situation to realize how they feel about you. Humble yourself, reach out and persist. You can't just give up because a few things knock you down. If only I had someone else tell me that in this past year...